* By not forgiving, you might expect that people who you hurt it just got it with you. Might you hope that the apology will not make it suffer? Exactly the opposite, you own the more ill liver because of the more tormented by bad memory on your pet.

* Maybe you wish, with no gain forgiveness, and then these people will never find peace in life. Perhaps you forget that life is not depends on you, but to himself. So, get forgiveness from you or not, not really any effect against him.

* If you do not forgive, if life is to hurt people your heart becomes more misery and suffering? Might Instead of his life so much happier than you, and he was considered finished all your problems. So, who really lost? Of course your own. Purpose heart and make a profit let stump, and even loss stump itself.

* Actually, what’s in it for you if you continue to save and maintaining bad memories and hurt it? Can feel satisfied? Did you already satisfy? So, why still keep disappointment, sadness, anger, and the like that?

* You may be so hated people who have hurt it tremendously. Therefore it’s difficult once you give excuse me. If you hate, should be released. But, why do you actually carry the memory of the person so strong? Maybe you forget, do not give forgiveness means you continue to commit themselves to that person, with all the memory bad and negative emotions that accompany it. So who are the losers? You’re self.

* You may think that forgiveness would harm them you? Your prestige is fall? Is price themselves and prestige lies in there? Maybe you forgot, with forgiveness was really just you need to creation of a good relationship with yourself. You can at peace with yourself.

* Do not you know you are, with or without apologizing, and then the affected is yourself? The man did not require apology from you because he can forgive himself, and continue her life. So, why do you persist with life in hurt?

Forgiveness is release you from suffering. So, who is benefit if you can forgive?

Of course outside of the problems associated with famous people, many more other cases that eventually reached the desk officer, starting from counterfeiting quality meat at a restaurant, corruption in politics, to physical violence in the institution sumo education resulting in death.

In essence, one who violates the rules, without distinction, famous or not, rich or poor, should be subject to sanctions equivalent. Of course, this is not a new thing for all beings in the universe this highway. Regardless of how big, long, and the influences sanctions are available, there are interesting culture that we can examine

MUSHASHI origin of this country, the courage to admit mistakes openly and sincerely apologized for his conduct have been troubling the general public. Perhaps this sounds a simple thing, but if we consider expressions of remorse and apology is not only involved and effect on the person, but until the company or the institution where the person shelter. Often we can seen through the mass media, people who have the highest position in the organization or feel more accountable government responsibility, until eventually some of them chose resigned from his position because of the incident.

Case this often we hear and see in the arena of Japanese politics. Why does this happen and to what extent actual sense of responsibility that leaders have in the country this is considered progress?

From the various conversations in Japanese, basically said “sorry” or in their language “sumimasen” uttered often, either when they are dealing with someone in a meeting accidental, or in the encounter which had agreed. Indeed, the word is often only defined as excuse the expression, though in reality, this word has applied in a broader sense. This phrase certainly does not refer to what they said sorry convey a moderate because of mistakes they have do. “Hansai” or what they termed as self-reflection is actually the central idea of the culture country.

This expression is the recognition that they really have do something with this mistake and are willing improve. A leader or manager is a person who most responsible for the company, so that they who have to deal with the public directly.